Since this has been an increasing problem over the years...
I do not give substitutions for items you can't locate (or refuse to try on your own to locate,) nor do I give substitutions for actions you can't take. The substitution for anything you can't find or any action you can't take is to find a spell you have all the ingredients to and can undertake all the actions thereof.
"Quick Advice/Clarification" on an article is something to the effect of: "Can I use a votive rather than a taper candle here?" or "If I use 'Love Me' instead of 'Return to Me' oil, would that be effective on a problem where reconciling the party is unneeded?"
Spell-coaching (a paid service) is anything that would take me literally over five minutes to write a response to. So, if you're asking me to give you special custom advice regarding your situation, or you need a lot of assistance on working a particular spell or finding a particular spell, you need to PURCHASE spell coaching.
Please note the date-stamp on the article you are asking about. Some links may be out-dated. While I don't mind being alerted to an out-dated link, I DO NOT always have a replacement link for that product or store.
Also, if there is any header or notice that I no longer accept questions regarding a particular article (sometimes after a decade of abusive behaviors regarding one article, I have had enough discussion on the matter to last a lifetime,) please do not ask if you can be the exception to that rule. You are already being provided with 2000% more information than I EVER HAD when first using that spell - trust me. Maybe I have more practice in spellcasting than you do (I am almost sure that I do!) but you should be able to work any spell I've posted here with the instructions I have given. Again, quick clarification on an instruction is fine - but if you want me to customize my instructions to your needs, that is a paid service.
Hope that clears things up! :)