Good afternoon, Occulties,
So, as we all know, there is absolutely no reasoning with a person who’s all fired up and angry, right? Telling someone to calm down is about as effective as getting your cat to settle down by throwing a bucket of ice water on it.
While giving someone some space, not insisting on having the last word (and the fastest way to get booted out of my virtual office is to always have a reply when you are already in trouble with me, and unsurprisingly that’s probably a big part of your target being angry if you’re that type, so some of you need to learn when to stop talking,) knowing how to apologize and avoiding groveling, bargaining, bad apologies,* OVER apologizing, or over explaining your side is key, this spell should work to calm the person down faster than they normally would calm down. If you really messed up, you will likely have to do something more like reconciliation work (and this can be used in conjunction with that kind of work,) but this works marvelously on targets that take forever to calm down once angered.
You will need:
A hair from the target’s head**
A white floating candle
Eucalyptus leaves
Spearmint leaves
Star Anise
A large metal bowl
A pot for boiling
Water
A strainer OR a tea ball
Peace oil or Peace Between Us oil or Tranquility oil
A nail, pin, or lancet
Place about 1/8 cup each of spearmint, eucalyptus leaves, and star anise into a medium boiling pot - if you are using a tea ball, place them into a large tea ball then into the pot.) Yes your regular pots and pans are fine, except avoid using cast iron cookware. Pour in water to start it boiling. Once you reach a rolling boil, reduce the heat to simmering. Stir it SEVEN times, saying the following once per stir (a total of 7 times,) “(Name of target,) calm your mind, and calm your heart, this potion calms you down and quiets your anger.” Now cover this, allow it to boil at least five minutes without meddling with it, and then repeat stirring 7 times with saying the words seven times, then cover again. You will do this every five minutes (or longer if you choose to make the increments between longer,) until you have stirred and chanted a total of 49 times (7x7). Allow this to cool and strain off the herbal mixture, keeping the tea.
Heat the pin or nail or whatever metal poking implement you have and make a small hole in your floating candle, taking care not to push through. Stuff your witness sample (the hair,) into this hole and seal it with wax (I tend to have an extra “sealing” candle handy for this - just a junk candle I am not using for spellwork on its own, - but you may not,) and as you stuff they witness sample into the hole, you should be envisioning the target’s face, and you say “(Name of target,) hear my words, heed my command, by the grace of Almighty God, amen.”*** Scratch then initials of the target on the candle. Anoint the surface clockwise with a few drops of oil. Place this into your metal bowl, and pour cold water into the bowl until it is about half full. Now put your tea mix into the water. Light your candle and envision your target calm and collected - I like to see a cooling soothing energy pouring from my heart and into the target, and then keeping this in your mind’s eye, say “(Name of Target,) I calm you, I soothe you, I cool you with mint and draw out the flame of anger within you. As the fire from this candle extinguishes when it meets the calm cooling water, so does your anger cease when you again encounter me. As is my will so be it!”
Allow the candle to burn out. When it has, remove the candle remnants and pour the liquid mixture out of the front entrance of your home.
Hope this is what you needed today. Back soon with more!
~Cat
*Apologies should be given a singular time. They are for the giver, not the receiver, really, so keep in mind that you are apologizing to admit you recognize your wrong doing, and feel guilt, but this is to relieve some guilt you feel…by offering this apology. This is why over-apologizing is bad. It makes the receiver feel like you are pushing them to relieve you of your burden of guilt when you have already hurt or offended them. You do not deflect responsibility. Remember, apologies with a “but” in them stink. Properly if I had kidnapped your pet penguin and during a high speed chase the bird was arrested for driving without a license (it’s an amazing penguin,) I should say “Gee, I’m sorry I ran off with your penguin. Doing something so crazy is unacceptable, and now that your penguin is in jail, I feel you should know that I’m willing to bail him out, and I want to do so, as long as you’re amenable.” It should not be, “I’m sorry that I ran off with your penguin but he’s so cool, and then I probably should not have him drive but I thought ‘When will I see this again,’ but it’s okay because I’ll bail him out, and you’re totally overreacting.” So, what did you do wrong? Admit that with no deflection of blame, admit it was unacceptable. Say “I hope you can forgive me.” End of apology.
**Also you can use a small piece of an unwashed hat (the inside part that touches the forehead and crown.) If you can’t get either, then please navigate my blog on your own too see if you have all the ingredients to another spell. The solution IS NOT to ask me repeatedly if something is an acceptable substitute. You will be ignored.
***As usual, IDGAF what you believe because I’m just happy you are happy with your choice of religion or lack thereof. So you can say “As is my will, so be it,” instead of wanting no religious flavoring to your spellwork.
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