Hey Occulties,
You know what annoys me day after day and year after year? This stupid phrase/belief or those near to it:
“I know the dangers of casting love spells on a specific person”
And what are those “dangers?”
Usually some claptrap about “karma” when the only Karma I believe in is Karma Zain (she’s real, known her for like 20 years, even spoken on the phone with her before,) and as for that which you do in this life affecting your next incarnation, I can’t really say as that is religious dogma I don’t share, but I can say that karma has nothing to do with if you do bad things in this life it comes and bites you in the ass in this life…unless you do bad things to Karma Zain because she’s pretty tough and good at spellcasting and she might kick your ass (magically.) So unless the karma you fear in you love spells is the aforementioned Ms Zain, let’s cross that off the list for now.
The next is that the love “created” by the spell will be “cursed.” The problem you may be encountering us that love spells do not make you compatible, nor do they change a jerk to a Prince. So just because someone loves you, it doesn’t change them to a kind or good person, nor does love make a relationship functional. That isn’t a curse. That is either naivety on the part of the petitioner (you must be very young to believe love conquers all, - though it is a powerful force, it doesn’t make people behave right nearly as much as it makes them behave badly,) nor is it entirely a bad thing. If I am not compatible with my partner, it is best we both find a compatible partner otherwise we will find ourselves miserable in our pairing eventually.
In fact the whole “reconciliation spells never work,” is a stupid idea promoted by people incapable of responsibility for their own actions (so they engage in the same behaviors which ended the relationship before,) and/or introspection and acceptance (so they can’t accept it was not compatible to begin with and continually pull back their ex over and over in a desperate attempt to keep them borne of possessiveness and not love.) Reconciliation spells have saved a great deal of relationships, but it still required work to avoid the same mistakes that broke the couple up so that the relationship remained functional.
Love spells do not create hate or disdain. This is nearly always the petitioner acting against their spellwork albeit unintentionally. The spell is cast and the petitioner acts desperate and scary and crazy. Love spells cannot change that you are socially inept if you are even if you are only made so by the object of your affections. So if you scare your target off demanding love and affection or with huge emotional displays it is you and not a spell who is to blame when, being put off by the smell of desperation, the target goes running in the opposite direction.
Love spells are not magical rape. I might agree that if the intention was just to make random people have sex with you with a wave of your hand this may equate to that. Love spells are made to stir the heart, not the gonads, and are not the same thing as lust spells.
Love spells do not create real love. Love spells can stir up the feelings of love where love exists but in reality a target who does not love you feels infatuated with you when affected if you are working in them to make them feel romantic love. If you do not specify romance, I’ve seen some well meaning people come up with a new best friend out of their target but no romance.
So with all that in mind, what are these dangers and evils associated with love spells outside of a particular religion of about 100 years of age saying they are wrong (and yes Wicca and it’s neo pagan off shoots are where that idea most often comes from)? You need not agree but in 30 years of casting spells I can’t say love spells were some scary deadly force… the worst outcomes tended to be a few people who ended up not being all the petitioner wanted so the curse was telling the target to bugger off when that was realized.
~Cat
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