Hey Occulties,
Sorry for the delay in announcing contest winners. I will be trying to do so this evening as I know it's been long awaited but Mr NinjaCat and I have had a pretty busy few weeks along with some very verbal clients being on the current roster simultaneously, and it's really affected my spare time to write in. I'm sorry if I've let anyone down by being delayed, but paying business and family take precedence over blog posts and contests...so it is coming shortly. This, however, is more pressing.
Whenever my life gets hectic, it seems I don't have time to post, and I'm probably a bit too brief in replies as well which in turn creates a flood of LUST FOR RESULTS.
And one cause (perhaps the number one cause) is nearly always CHOOSING to constantly dwell on the problem being worked on, thus slowing your results, and if bad enough, killing them altogether.
The other issue I get is something I might term as "dedicated self-defeatism" which is along the line of "I know this isn't helpful to this situation or to myself to engage in this behavior, but I will anyhow." A mundane comparison might be someone who complains that they can't lose weight while overeating and only eating highly processed unhealthy foods when they do eat. A related problem is "fault-projecting self-defeatism," which is always blaming someone else for your actions. So if we use our mundane example, that's comparable to someone who blames a friend for always wanting to eat at a fast food restaurant for being the sole cause of their weight issue. While someone may negatively influence the situation, you control your own response thereto. Self-defeatism is about as useful as it sounds and I'd best describe it as a form of apathy. However, it can also be on the road to lust for results, so not only are you choosing (by lack of action and/or lack of responsibility,) to remain in a place in your life which you don't wish to be, you're often causing yourself to become angry and stirred up by being "stuck" there, and then this all leads you down the nasty lust for results path.
But wait, there's more!
Do you remember "Death Clocks?" I've discussed this more than once, but loosely this is when you put an exact time limit on something, then basically manifest failure in so doing. So if I say "If my ex hasn't come back" (please don't come back, any of you, lol,) "by a week from today, it means my spellwork failed," then what I am basically creating is a situation where my ex will not under any circumstances come back that day or before because I manifested failure by that sort of thinking. Very annoying, I know, but you basically send out an energy that draws failure by x date when you think this way. If you can tell me what you were doing and what you were wearing exactly 2 weeks ago at 2:30pm and then what you were doing and wearing 42 days ago at 11am, than I can already tell that you are a death clocker. If you come into my inbox and bemoan that it's been 4 weeks exactly to the day? Lust for results, death clocking, and you are the reason it's delayed. It's literally something you can control in most cases. Your problem is you need to LET IT GO, and STOP TICKING THE DAYS OFF, and FOCUS ON OTHER THINGS SO YOUR SPELLWORK CAN MANIFEST, and refusing to do so by saying you "Can't help it" or some similar excuse is DEDICATED SELF-DEFEATISM which is also bad (see above.)
Of course, what sort of article on lust for results can be complete without a mention of DRAINING LEVELS OF NEGATIVITY AND INSECURITY. And while I am certain it's draining to you, it's also draining to everyone else, and repelling them as they do not want to be near someone who drains all of the energy out of them just by interacting with them. I don't expect anyone to be chock fulla sunshine if they have been emotionally traumatized, but you can try not sulking and focusing on your blessings rather than your problems and I'm certain it will boost your mood and make you more attractive to others. I always tell people if we all got together and threw our problems on the problem pile, you'd grab your own back fast enough when you saw how bad other people's problems are. If you knew the amount of times I've had ridiculous problems going on (and if you remember second Mr NinjaCat if you've known me as far back as 2019, he was a constant horrible problem creator,) only to have an hour or three taken up by someone legitimately ugly crying about an image or heart react on social media for my job, I can assure you that many, many many people exaggerate to themselves how bad their problems really are. Someone heart reacting to your rival's new selfie is not worth a tear, much less hours of them. If you suspect you might be guilty of this (and everyone is here and there,) you might remind yourself of that proverbial problem pile to reassure you that you are doing better than many people around you, and things are really not so desperate.
And speaking of desperate, what is the world's worst cologne? DESPERATION! So please keep this in mind when trying to find love or retrieve love. You know when desperate people do? They social media stalk-lurk. They call and text too much and often over explain and smother. They get upset over the littlest slight. They do a lot more, but you want to avoid
And lastly, try to keep in mind, just because a love spell can make a person feel all lovey towards you, that doesn't make them kind, thoughtful, not abusive, honest or any of that. It just means they feel affection and desire for you, which is not loyalty, fidelity, or a personality change just because they have those feelings.
Hopefully this little review has been helpful!
~Cat
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