Hey Occulties,
Here we go, another QYAM article!
Q: Should I do cursing during a waxing or waning moon phase?
A: Either. It depends on the curse. If I’m assuming you want the curse energy to grow which would use a waxing phase, then you’d start at the first quarter waxing phase, but if you’re dissolving some influence to create a more negative situation then you want the third quarter (as soon after the full moon as possible.
People get confused because they were told negative workings are for the waning phase and positive for the waxing when we should look at it more like increasing and decreasing. It has literally zero to do with it being a blessing or curse. You use the “growth” (strongest lunar day being the day after but closest to the new moon) to grow, or to bring to you, or the “shrinking” (ie waning so the day after the full moon,) to decrease, lessen, and remove. The full moon IS NOT strong for growing an influence and is inert. It has other properties. The brighter the moon is the less growing influence you have.
Q: Do autistic people react to spells the same as neurotypicals?
A: This is a very broad question I can’t give a yes and no answer to. Whenever you’re working on the person versus a situation, the intelligent tactic is to keep in mind the behavioral and emotional make up of that person as well as if they are neurodivergent. You should know the triggers of the spell work you use. This is why I have said no spell is one size fits all. Unfortunately, people don’t like that understanding basic psychology is essential to expert spellworking on PEOPLE. So yes, it is likely you would want to know the triggers used to create the desired outcome when working on an autistic person. If, however, you are working on the situation rather than the individual involved this is far less of a concern. These spells (like a get a job spell) are built to manifest a needed situation and whether or not an autistic person is involved should not be much of a concern with those. It’s just that many people ask about love spells and those spells tend to work on the person rather than the situation.
Q: How often should I clean my altar?
A: If you use it for multiple workings of different types, every time you use it you need to cleanse it of the previous spell’s energy. If you’re working the same kind of spell for the same purpose (all love spells for example) then whenever it’s dirty.
Q: Now that I have your number, it’s okay to text you every time I have a question about casting my own spells or to talk about my problems, right?
A: No. in fact I appreciate it if you stick to email only (texts are for supreme emergencies) and I sell a service that is answering your spell questions so it’s actually incredibly rude to suggest I do my job for you for free. I don’t mind answering handful of questions for free on the odd occasion (not several times a day or week) but texting me daily with several does cross the line.
There’s a difference between a paying spell client asking me about their situation i’m working on, and a paying spell client asking me about spells they cast themselves, - ones I didn’t cast, too. If I cast the spell, it’s my job to answer questions about it. It’s not my job to act as a free spell coach just because you’re working on the situation too. The amount of unpaid time I’m expected to work un-teaching the most ridiculous things people find on the corners of places rife with misinformation could qualify as a part-time job already.
And this is a job. I don’t know how many of you want to do your job for free to the detriment of having any time to yourself in an economy that is horrible, but the cost of everything has skyrocketed for everyone so, just like you, I need to earn an income so I can pay my bills and if I’m not earning one, I’d rather use the time to enjoy being with my family or doing things I enjoy - not working for free. I am happy to do what I’m paid to do, - and I’m seriously busy at this writing, - and i love what I do, but I don’t think texting me 30 questions about spells I’m not casting at 2am and getting pissy when I don’t respond I’d acceptable.
Q: I got a cleansing from a spellcaster and things improved for a few months, now I feel like I’m returning to the same state. Were their spells weak?
A: If you took a shower or bath a year ago and haven’t bathed since and find yourself filthy, is your shower weak? if you swept the floor last month and now it’s filthy, is your broom weak? If you ate two days ago and you’re ravenous, is your stomach weak? Is your food weak? This is no different than spells cast on a living situation (ie a cleansing as you will get spiritually dirty again.) Any situation which is in a state of constant evolution (which includes your cleanliness,) may require you to have it redone to keep yourself in the state desired.
Q: Is there a spell to make people forget the mistakes you’ve made?
A: Well there are workings to make them think better of you, to minimize the mistakes, to forgive you, but short of giving someone brain damage, I can’t say they will ever forget.
Q: How long have you been reading tarot?
A: At this writing, 34 years, 29 years professionally.
Q: Have you ever cursed a person only to find out they were not guilty of the offense you put the curse on them for?
A: Not in my personal work for myself. If anything, I’ve been too kind to my enemies over all, though I’m sure a few would be sniveling that I wasn’t nice at all to hear that statement. I have had a few clients who convinced me to put a far too nasty curse on parties who were not as guilty as they said, though I generally decline to curse someone for hire if I suspect such a thing.
If the underlying question is have I felt badly for cursing after I cursed… not so much. I curse people who earn it and then some.
Hope this has been educational!
~Cat
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