Hey there my Occulties,
I'd wanted to post a spell but judging from the barrage of emails concerning the "why is my time frame three whole days late?" or "Why is the time frame I made up in my head not being met," issue I'm having on my days off, this is what you all get instead. Also SATURDAY AND SUNDAY ARE MY DAYS OFF AS ARE ALL LEGAL USA HOLIDAYS, SO TECHNICALLY WAS NOT EVEN IN THE OFFICE TIL YESTERDAY. *shoots dirty looks around the rant room*'
So, first, we have to understand time is not entirely perceived correctly in the sense of that you and I are 3 dimensional creatures, therefore we have some perception of time (fourth dimension,) but experience it as linear when more and more it is looking as if it is not, it is just our perception. With that in mind, let's say I tell you that tomorrow at exactly 330pm, you will be hit by a bus. By telling you this, you avoid being outside whatsoever at this time and are never hit by this bus. So at the point I told you, this was in front of you, but you altered your path, therefore it did not happen. So this is what happens constantly - by altering our own actions through forewarning, fear, desire, - basically because of information and emotion and even actions which arise from the information received or emotions emoted, - we change the current future in front of us. This is why I say time is not linear, for if it were linear, you would lack free will to change the path.
Many people seem to grasp this - that if we know an unwanted or a wanted event is within our reach, that we can take simple steps to avoid it or to attain it
What is less obvious is that your emotions have energy, and your thoughts have energy. This is not the stupid misused and horribly misunderstood law of attraction you find in pulply "manifest your dreams," books, but the real law of attraction at work. Think of it like an etheric form of physics.
So if you are thinking how sad and miserable you are without your ex, and how you're afraid he or she will never return, and you find yourself anxiously dwelling on how this will never change, you are in fact disrupting spell manifestation of a reconciliation spell. If you are worried you aren't going to get the money to pay that bill on time, you are the one slowing that money spell's manifestation (and that's the one i am nearly always doing to my own self - so I often get stuck paying late fees, hehe.) If you keep worrying your enemy will never get their much deserved comeuppance, you are prolonging the wait on your revenge spell.
I'm sure you see where this is going.
And I understand exactly how you feel. Of course worry is an entirely useless emotion, - it's, in all reality, a damaging and futile practice, - but for reasons I still don't entirely understand it's one that humans still naturally gravitate towards doing to ourselves. Worry is also not the only problematic form of thinking that delays an outcome, and several actions and behaviors can also impede the outcome we desire and/or have been spellcasting towards. Worry can cause panic, which in turn can cause bad behaviors and actions, and it can cause anger when we have no real reason to feel anger towards another. The amount of times per week that I get worried emails discussing how someone was unfriended or unfollowed and how this must be a "bad sign" is not tiny at all, when were it nearly anyone other than the spell target, the person who's super worried probably wouldn't even notice, but in a desperation grasps a social media relationship as having some bearing on reality, so now I get to waste a half hour in the hopes that they won't kill their spellwork.*
Unfortunately, spellwork does work best when you are not anxious, when you do not overthink, when you do not obsess, and when you have some social intelligence. Since the "time frame is not matching with my expectation," when said expectation is not ridiculous (if you expect your spellwork to manifest in a day or two, you have a ridiculous expectation,) is a common complaint, it's really up to you to be HONEST with yourself and ask yourself how often you think on the issue you are working on.
Further, while I understand not everyone is great in social situations, several of you need to understand that apologizing, complaining, or explaining can all be detrimental in love situations. So, as far as apologies - if you have said you're sorry then don't say it again. It's fine to admit fault to someone if you hurt them, but keep in mind that apologies are for the giver more than the receiver in many cases. Furthermore, if the person has told you that they need space, then give it to them. Do not beg or push for attention. Do not complain that they aren't doing enough, and stop explaining yourself. These are all annoying, anxious, and desperate behaviors. They will not endear you to the target - they will repel the target. Instead you need to be calm, collected, and act like you have a life outside of them, and interests outside of them. I know I say this a fair amount, but to attract an ex still requires you to be attractive to them, even with a spell - just like not washing yourself or your clothing for months would make you physically repellant, well, certain behaviors make you emotionally repellant, and until you stop engaging in those behaviors, your target - even under the influence of a spell, - will be avoidant as you are in such a state as to make yourself someone most people would want to avoid. As difficult as it may be, you do need to dust yourself off and get out of the funk...or if you can't, you need to speak to a doctor who can help you through this phase. I am not a free psychiatrist, and while I don't mind giving a little encouragement, if you need my assistance frequently in this respect, I strongly suggest you employ a psychiatrist to see you through this rough patch.
But I've digressed a bit... So, let's get back on topic. As I have said, much to the annoyance of all, the real true answer to "how long will this take to manifest?" is properly "As long as it needs to." It can sometimes be "ballparked" meaning someone might be able to loosely give an idea of how long, but as I've said over and over, I've had a personal target who would take 60 days to the minute almost every time I cast a spell to react to it, and I was neither overthinking, nor worrying, or even anxious about the outcome. There was absolutely nothing wrong with the spellwork, it was just how it hit that particular target. I have also seen targets who reacted emotionally very quickly (so those close to the target or the target themselves later reported as very rapidly feeling the effects to me at some point after the spell had manifested) but did not act on said emotions rapidly whatsoever...therefore from the perspective of the petitioner (me in some cases,) the results felt like they took forever...especially if I was too focused on the situation. :P
I can't tell you how long something will take and always be right. I can tell you that if you're nagging me about a "lack of results" the moment an APPROXIMATED SUGGESTED TIME FRAME would have passed, that you are likely obsessing and delaying the manifestation. Further if you act against the spellwork (and the spellwork is not going to care if you "couldn't help yourself" and had to do something contradictory to it's manifestation,) you may be delaying the manifestation as well. Until you realize that spellwork is not like a vending machine where you make an incredibly specific request that just instantly manifests because you lit a candle once, and does so regardless of your actions (it won't work that way,) then you are going to be disappointed and probably very aggravated by time frames which are almost definitely going to pass by with you still waiting.
Now, can someone "feel out" a time frame? To some extent. So when I work on a person, I have an idea of what they are thinking or feeling like one might understand what another person is thinking or feeling by the expression on their face. This is not an in depth understanding like a reading might give and pre-emptiviely if you ask me about it I will likely put you off because people attach far too much anxiety to whether or not the target is initially resisting (very normal, not a concern,) so don't ask. That said, because of years of experience, and having worked on hundreds if not thousands of targets, I do have a sort of feel for how things will go normally and I am not usually too off on the time frame...until you calculate that I am not the only one who knows what I am doing. That would be neither here nor there if the petitioner did not obsess, become anxious, or had a high social intelligence in many cases, but instead I also need to gauge that and the more anxious and needy the petitioner is, the longer I have to add to my average manifestation time figure.
And before you decide I'm discussing you personally, an example of a high-maintenance and obsessive client of mine in the past was a person who literally demanded twenty-five to forty hours PER WEEK (not including spellwork) of my time with emails to reassure, to explain and re-explain how spells manifest, and to basically act as an on demand therapist. While this is an extreme case, the average spellcasting client takes up about 2-3 hours of my time in total per spell. So the average person does tend to have the average manifestation figure fit their situation. The lowest maintenance clients I have tend to have the average figure fit their situation...but, with some exceptions, the more nervous and anxious a client is, even if I hardly hear from them (I can tell even when I don't, but to be fair 85% of my high maintenance clients are the anxious type) the longer it will take.
So why do time frames change? Actions and behaviors of those knowledgeable about the work can delay and in some cases speed up the approximate time of manifestation estimate.
And again this is not about a particular person. I've had at least 14 people that I can count in the last 6-7 days who waxed prosiac about social media to me, for example.
~Cat
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*I have been blocked, unfriended, unfollowed, unliked and all of that by my current partner merely over mild annoyance or a quick argument and it has had 100% no impact on our relationship, to the degree that sometimes the partner in question (and it's more than one of my partners including the one I have at this writing and those previous to him who have done this to me at this point,) actually has forgotten I am unfriended or unblocked, etc. Why? Because it has no relevance to anything and it's not worth the enormous waste of my time weekly to try to console someone over a non-problem. Why did they stop following? Why unfriend? It's not your business, really but maybe they feel like if they get distance from you they won't think about coming back so much or similar. The fact you noticed in most cases instantly tells me this is going to be a longer wait for you to get results. So for the last time, STOP SPYING ON SOCIAL MEDIA AS YOU ARE JUST PROLONGING YOUR WAIT. If you complain about what's happening on your Insta, your FB, or etc to me, you may have me tell you to stop using social media, or if you annoy me with it enough, I'll tell you exactly what the problem is...and it's that you're obsessively stalking someone using social media and you need to stop.